Monday, November 19, 2012
Baja 1000
We got up early and walked up to the Hotel Coral, that's attached to our Marina, to see drivers and their cars for the Baja 1000. We took the shuttle to downtown Ensenada, where there were thousands of people, partying it up. Cars were everywhere. It was something to see. Now add the cars that were going to race in the Baja 1000, their crew and families along with all the people and cars of those in town, mix it up with the people from the Cruise ships.......lotsssss of people! The weather was chilly and there was a light sprinkle that made the cars squeal and slide out, while taking off. We were standing at the starting line with friends from the marina and probably not in the safest spot. Jordan ran in to Gregg Godfrey, from Utah, from Nitro Circus, (Jordan worked for him for a while). He was great! It was a fun day watching all the cars take off, and rip through the town. A good day........
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Another Try.....
I have to say I wasn't thrilled to learn about the out come of the Election. But now that it is, what it is, I hope President Obama, REALLY gets it, and hears what the people are crying out, all across the nation! I wrote this poem years ago, but felt it might be worth posting,in light of the where things are right now in the world. it wasn't written for this purpose, but still works......Would love to hear your input!
Stand
Upon the Line
It’s time to blow the trumpet, to let its warning
sound,
And finally stand together, as one on hallowed ground.
Now all around the world, the evil has crept in,
And some don’t even realize they wear the face of sin.
There is a master marksman and cunning is the bow,
His quiver filled with evil, while he laughs at what
he’ll sow.
He’s watching for your weakness, all targets are in
place,
Each time he shoots an arrow, a soul has been erased.
He’s using all his power to catch you in the snare,
And when you’ve given hope away, he knows that you
won’t care.
His face the mask of evil and wickedness his joy,
Because he has deceived the world, his goal, a soul,
destroy.
The only way that he can live is to steal the life you
own,
Then slowly take away your will, to make his presence
known.
He changes one’s perspective, greed makes you want it
all,
Know the higher up the star, much greater is the fall.
He has his own alliance; they hold his evils high,
And if you do not choose a side, they will not pass
you by.
Some have lost the whisper that guides their inner
light,
Because they have ignored it, they have no strength to
fight.
It’s time to show your courage, to stand upon the
line,
Unveil your gleaming armor and show how bright you
shine.
Like soldiers in a battle, who learn to fight as one,
It will take each one of us, to lift our fallen sons.
Come stand behind God’s army and with them make your
choice,
So you can hear the whisper, the sound of freedom’s voice.
Then you will have the strength to stand and join the
fight,
Unveil your gleaming armor and let them see your
light.
The warriors have now started, to hear the battle
call,
Protected by God’s armor, for evil’s final fall.
Wendy
S. Peck
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Days Of The Week
Being without a phone, and no contact with the busy world, time seems to take a different agenda. Each morning someone will mumble out, what day is it? Someone will throw out, "Monday," someone else adds, "Does it matter?"....... So what day is it? I had to turn on my phone and look at the day. Drum roll......it's Wednesday! Yes, I knew the election was yesterday, "very messy" but still couldn't remember what day it was. You just seem to lose time here........and we aren't even on the real journey yet. A few more weeks for boat repairs.......
Each morning on my visit to the (bano), I see the same little man walking down the docks, taking out trash. I know the correct response is "Buenos Dias" and each time we meet and I'm ready to use my Spanish words, he gives me the most intense stare that I instantly become BRAIN DEAD! So far this past week, I've choked out, Bueno D, Bue, Di, Hola, O, and B, along with just walking on by.... This morning I see him coming up the sidewalk and I prepare my brain for the perfect greeting. I say it over and over in my head, (mind you I have no problem saying this or any other greeting in Spanish, during the day to anyone else), just this little man! So this morning I see him coming down the street, and he does "THE STARE" and I spurt it out "Bueno Dias" with great flare.......and he laughs right out loud. This little stinker knows he's giving me a head trip and he loves it! I think tomorrow I'm going to stop right in front of him and watch his reaction.....lol
Today were off to the WalMart, and then to Home Depot....should make for an interesting day!
Each morning on my visit to the (bano), I see the same little man walking down the docks, taking out trash. I know the correct response is "Buenos Dias" and each time we meet and I'm ready to use my Spanish words, he gives me the most intense stare that I instantly become BRAIN DEAD! So far this past week, I've choked out, Bueno D, Bue, Di, Hola, O, and B, along with just walking on by.... This morning I see him coming up the sidewalk and I prepare my brain for the perfect greeting. I say it over and over in my head, (mind you I have no problem saying this or any other greeting in Spanish, during the day to anyone else), just this little man! So this morning I see him coming down the street, and he does "THE STARE" and I spurt it out "Bueno Dias" with great flare.......and he laughs right out loud. This little stinker knows he's giving me a head trip and he loves it! I think tomorrow I'm going to stop right in front of him and watch his reaction.....lol
Today were off to the WalMart, and then to Home Depot....should make for an interesting day!
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Precious Life......
This week my heart is heavy..... Two nights ago, my sweet little 101 yr. old Grandmother passed away. She was the quietest, strongest, sweetest woman I've even known. I saw her several times a week from the time I was born until I graduated from High School and moved away. I loved being in her home and around her. I always felt loved being around her...... I'm so happy she is at peace and with my Grandpa, my Uncle Duane and my Mother, her parents and all those who've gone before!
This is my Grandma as a teenager......
Today my heart is with my cousin Carlen. She's actually Darrell's cousin, but I adore her and we are very close, and being in the family for 33 yrs., I claim her as mine too. Her oldest son Donny passed away last night from an accidental over dose. Donny was an amazing young man. He was very smart, talented and beautiful. He had so many hardships in his young life. His courage and strength have had to fight against some of the toughest physical and mental demons. We loved him and he will be missed. Carlen is such an amazing mom and I can't imagine the loss she is feeling. I love you dear Carlen and my heart and prayers are with you....... Hugs
This is my Grandma as a teenager......
Today my heart is with my cousin Carlen. She's actually Darrell's cousin, but I adore her and we are very close, and being in the family for 33 yrs., I claim her as mine too. Her oldest son Donny passed away last night from an accidental over dose. Donny was an amazing young man. He was very smart, talented and beautiful. He had so many hardships in his young life. His courage and strength have had to fight against some of the toughest physical and mental demons. We loved him and he will be missed. Carlen is such an amazing mom and I can't imagine the loss she is feeling. I love you dear Carlen and my heart and prayers are with you....... Hugs
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Getting settled....
Getting settled into the Coral Marina in Ensenada brought a bit of Deja vu..... It was nice to see old friends and meet new ones. When we left San Diego, we were very loaded down and many things were everywhere. We decided that with our timeline, it was better to just bring it, and go through the stash later. Hugeeeeee problem. Try moving 6 people around extra parts, is parts, is parts! We've been here almost a week, and things have started to settle down. Tension has been high, trying to figure out how to co-exist with this many people in such a small space. Our boat is actually considered big, but for full time living with 6, not so much. We love having a beautiful pool to relax in everyday, the view is amazing, and the placement of our dock is good for exercise in itself. Everyday has been spent working through the weeding process, along with new issues and seemingly never ending toilet issues, now batteries. Not our favorite things!
We have found the Soriana's to be great and getting there one just has to RUN across a freeway. Yes, I said run across a freeway. That's how they do it here. In the US, they have signs that show, watch out for deer. Here it's a yellow sign, with a family all holding hands running and the little girl at the end of the line has both feet off the ground. The boy's said we would all run fast and put Whitney at the end of the line but she had to commit to lifting her feet.......NOT!
Little by little we will get the final preparations ready for our journey south. It's been good to meet people who are leaving soon doing the same thing making the same journey....
Emigration was a bit of a challenge. The man examining the Passports was very stern, and picked one up, smelled one of them, and touched his tongue at the corner, then said, "NO GOOD!" He picked up the last passport and did the same thing, passing them back to us. They just so happened to be the 2 newest passports, Jamin and Jordan's. I flipped, I went into a bit of a panic mode and then he looked at me with a slight smile, and said, "No good, no signature!" Then winked at me and started to laugh. He loved my reaction........ I told him he was a stinker, and he just grinned ear to ear. But then taking them to the lady handling the money, she made us stand in 2 different lines, while bumping people ahead of us. I started to get upset, and said, "HEY"! Darrell, immediately told me to go sit down, because I would cause more trouble. He said she could make us stand in a corner all day if she wanted to. She was watching, with a smug smile. I sat down and she immediately told him he could come to her window! WENCH.......pardon me....cough, cough....the whole event wore me out!
Today I met with friends and we walked along the coast to a sweet little apartment of a local woman who teaches Spanish. They have all been going for a couple of years, and all speak in only Spanish. The little teacher was darling and believe it or not, I understood quite a bit, but couldn't return the conversation.....very frustrating. I've got to listen to Spanish morning noon and night I think. It was very fun and we laughed and laughed. Next week she's teaching us while cooking in her kitchen. I can't wait! Lets just say, sailing, being a sailor and everything that goes with it, has certainly shown me what I'm made of. I'm sure my mom and grandparents would be very proud of me. I'm pretty darn proud of myself!!! So all in all, a few rough, good days. Here's a couple of sailing pics.
I tried adding the whale video, but alas, tech challenged. Will get help manana.....Buenas Noches
We have found the Soriana's to be great and getting there one just has to RUN across a freeway. Yes, I said run across a freeway. That's how they do it here. In the US, they have signs that show, watch out for deer. Here it's a yellow sign, with a family all holding hands running and the little girl at the end of the line has both feet off the ground. The boy's said we would all run fast and put Whitney at the end of the line but she had to commit to lifting her feet.......NOT!
Little by little we will get the final preparations ready for our journey south. It's been good to meet people who are leaving soon doing the same thing making the same journey....
Emigration was a bit of a challenge. The man examining the Passports was very stern, and picked one up, smelled one of them, and touched his tongue at the corner, then said, "NO GOOD!" He picked up the last passport and did the same thing, passing them back to us. They just so happened to be the 2 newest passports, Jamin and Jordan's. I flipped, I went into a bit of a panic mode and then he looked at me with a slight smile, and said, "No good, no signature!" Then winked at me and started to laugh. He loved my reaction........ I told him he was a stinker, and he just grinned ear to ear. But then taking them to the lady handling the money, she made us stand in 2 different lines, while bumping people ahead of us. I started to get upset, and said, "HEY"! Darrell, immediately told me to go sit down, because I would cause more trouble. He said she could make us stand in a corner all day if she wanted to. She was watching, with a smug smile. I sat down and she immediately told him he could come to her window! WENCH.......pardon me....cough, cough....the whole event wore me out!
Today I met with friends and we walked along the coast to a sweet little apartment of a local woman who teaches Spanish. They have all been going for a couple of years, and all speak in only Spanish. The little teacher was darling and believe it or not, I understood quite a bit, but couldn't return the conversation.....very frustrating. I've got to listen to Spanish morning noon and night I think. It was very fun and we laughed and laughed. Next week she's teaching us while cooking in her kitchen. I can't wait! Lets just say, sailing, being a sailor and everything that goes with it, has certainly shown me what I'm made of. I'm sure my mom and grandparents would be very proud of me. I'm pretty darn proud of myself!!! So all in all, a few rough, good days. Here's a couple of sailing pics.
I tried adding the whale video, but alas, tech challenged. Will get help manana.....Buenas Noches
Saturday, October 27, 2012
O' Dark Thirty...........
It's now 1:10 on Sat., morning, and we are all awake. We've been running none stop since the sun came up. We've been into West Marine, (our amazing, wonderful boaters store), for every device, filter, part, motor, etc, that one can possibly carry on a boat, (along with 6 people)! We've packed and jammed every nook and cranny. We will most likely have to unpack every nook and cranny in the next few weeks, and make a list of exactly where everything is. At this point, if we needed something in a hurry it wouldn't be pretty finding it....... We wanted to leave the Marina around 4:30, or 5:00, but at this point, a family has got to get a few hrs, of sleep! We want to tell Gretha & Gary our dear friends, and West Marine Sales Guru, THANK YOU, we couldn't have done this without you!!! We want to give a BIG shout out to our canvas guy Avi, who pushed to get everything finished in time.....whew! We also want to tell all our wonderful Sunroad Marina managment, friends and dock family, thank you for all the memories. We love you and hope you follow our journey and keep us posted on yours. It's a bitter sweet time. We have LOVED every minute of living in San Diego and a bit sad that we are leaving. But we also know there are new horizons to see and sunsets to enjoy. We are excited to savor every one....... So in about 30 min., we hope to get a couple hrs., of shut eye! Then it's Ensenada baby!!!
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
From the beginning...............
Hi friends, We are about to leave the U.S. and start our journey into foreign waters. I've had many people ask me how we ended up on the boat. Most people assume Darrell and I were just fulfilling our dreams. NOT!!! Believe me I had never once thought about living on a boat............ So I thought it only fitting to share our story from the beginning before moving forward to the 2nd half of this journey. For those of you who have heard the story, bare with me. Here we go............
Over four years ago Darrell was transferred to San Diego, as a Supervisor at the SOCAL TRACON center. He's an air traffic controller. We knew we would be moving somewhere out of Utah, so he could finish up his career. We had our home up for sale and he had moved to San Diego. I had joined him in San Diego several times to search for a home to purchase. We spent countless hours looking at homes that were extremely overpriced. The market was still high and to find a home that was in a good neighborhood and something we could afford was almost impossible. After several trips, we were becoming frazzled. I was planning a wedding while he was learning new air space and a new job. One weekend we spent 3 solid days looking at homes with our Realtor, and found a home in Escondido. It was bank owned, (needed lots of TLC), been sitting for over a year empty. It was VERY small, but we felt could be turned into a shiny penny..... The bank price was $425K, (which we thought was HORRIBLE). We made the offer, and left feeling really good, other than the fact that I would have to start looking for a job the minute we moved. That next Monday, while at dinner feeling like we could celebrate, I got a call from our Realtor. She said that the house had been in a bidding war over the weekend and we had been out bid by $200K!!! REALLY............. We felt like we'd been beat up. I flew back to Utah and we decided we had to do some serious knee bending to ask Heavenly Father, just what we should do. Darrell drove home the next Friday to pick up his Hobie Kat. He was feeling the pressure of work, finances, and not being able to help me maintain our big home and property. We also had been arguing a lot and were both feeling the pressure of the situation. We had just finished up a family dinner & our daughter was having a concert in our back yard that evening, Darrell was laying down in the sitting room by the fireplace, and the look on his face was so sad. I was doing dishes and felt such a huge burden that I started to silently pray. I asked God what he would have us do? What were we not seeing or doing? I thanked him for all my blessings, and asked him if he would please show me what I could do to help the situation. The minute I uttered that prayer, I loudly and clearly heard my name, "Wendy, look at things from his perspective" I was a little shocked, but turned and looked at Darrell. The sadness and weight of our situation was placed full force in my heart. I felt so overwhelmed that I had to lean my head down on the sink. I once again started to pray, asking, if that was how Darrell felt, how could I possibly help the situation, since I wasn't working, and felt I could do nothing to help. The second I asked that question I heard my name again, "Wendy, what are you WILLING to do?" I froze....... I looked out the window for several seconds, and pondered that question. Just what was I willing to do? Several thoughts raced through my mind, and none of them were very good solutions. So I said with everything in my heart, "I'm WILLING to ABSOLUTELY anything! Immediately I heard, "Buy Darci's boat!" I felt like I had been slapped by God. Darci is my husbands little sister, who had spend several years with her husband and four children in the Sea of Cortez, on their 54ft. sailboat. Had the Lord said to me, buy a boat, I would not have understood. But to tell me to buy Darci's boat, it gave me the full picture of living aboard a boat. I was in shock. Nothing on this planet could have been farther from where I thought we were supposed to be. I turned to Darrell and asked him if Darci's boat was for sail. He gave me an odd look and said, "how could you know that?" They had just put it on the market. He jumped to his feet and came up to me, grabbing me by both arms, and with the happiest look on his face, said, "you think you could do that?" Me, feeling like I could throw up, said, "Yes!" Not really feeling that was in my realm of possibilities. The door bell rang and kids were pouring in, so we weren't able to talk more about it. But I watched the night progress, and the way Darrell just seemed to walk around with this new light air about him. I on the other hand, went into the bedroom, had a good cry and threw up. I WAS GOING TO LIVE ON A BOAT!!!
The entire weekend we talked about the idea, and both felt it would work. We decided that Darci's boat was to big and older than we wanted. Being it had no electric winches and since we would be newbies, we wanted a newer boat. Monday morning he left Utah, driving his Hobie back to California. We had decided that I would look on the Internet and he would get a boat broker. He gave me guide lines on the type and size and price of boat he wanted. He called me many times on the drive back to California. Each time he would say, "you really think you could do this?" Each time with such excitement in his voice. And each time I would answer, "Yes!" When I told the Lord I would do ABSOLUTELY anything, I didn't say, anything but that! That night I got a call from my Realtor in Utah, the first words out of his mouth were, "are you sitting down?" I seriously felt like I would faint. My house had sold over the weekend. We were offered exactly what we had asked. The family were offering cash and wanted us out of the home in a week. A WEEK!!! I had a wedding coming up the next weekend. How could that possibly be done? So we were able to push it back one week, excepting the offer. That entire week I just walked around in a daze and would burst into tears, looking at all the beautiful things I owned. The beautiful home I was letting go. To go live on a BOAT! I would lay awake at night and literally shake.......
During the week, I had found a boat on line that I fell in love with. It was in our price range and in Long Beach. I hadn't had a chance to talk to Darrell because of his work schedule and his flight home for the wedding. So with papers in hand I picked him up at the airport. I felt that since I was the one that had heard the answer, I should get the chance to pick out the boat. He got off the plane and the first words out of his mouth were, "I put money down on a boat." I was sooooooooo hurt. I didn't even get to show him my photos of the boat I wanted. I started to cry, and told him I thought it wasn't fair that he'd done this. That he didn't even give me a chance to show him the boat I wanted. I shoved the papers into his hand. A big smile slowly came across his face. He had actually put money down on MY boat!!! We had both picked out the exact same boat. Everything fell into place like a set of domino's. The wedding was beautiful, the move was so fast your head would spin, and I was on my sailboat living in Mexico in a matter of just a couple of weeks.
During this time, I kept praying that the Lord would give me strength and help me do this. It was so much bigger that I was. So after saying goodbye to family and friends and the fear of moving aboard a boat, (I'd never stood on a sailboat), in Mexico, (I spoke no Spanish) we drove to Mexico. Our youngest son Jake moved aboard with me and Darrell dropped us both off at the boat, gave us some brief instructions, and had to drive back to the US. That night I hit my knees and asked Heavenly Father to help me. That I just didn't think I could do this. The next afternoon, I came walking down the dock from the pool at the Marina and was met by one of my boat neighbors. She wanted to introduce me to my neighbors who had just pulled in. It was a group of men who came down from Dana Point, California, to fish around the clock for a weekend. The last day they would come in and supply the fish while boaters on the dock supplied all the food for a wonderful dock party. The man got off the boat and came toward me. He shook my hand and told me his name. I had this shock go through me, (like I felt I knew him) and asked him where he was from. He told me a little town in Idaho. I felt like someone had wrapped me in a huge warm blanket. I laughed and told him I was from that same town. I had graduated with his brother. Not only were we from the same small Idaho town, but my dearest friend, is his first cousin and we had just been in that town saying goodbye to my Dad and Stepmother. We stopped at his parents home and his mother had given me a bunch of patterns to crochet and knit. I laughed and asked him when the last time was he'd been home. He said he hadn't been home in a year. I told him his parents looked great. He started to laugh and went into his boat and brought out the little town news paper with my Dad's face on it, because my dad had just become the County Commissioner........... That night after the party, I went into my room, got on my knees and thanked my Heavenly Father for watching over me. For showing me he was there.......for showing me, that what was to come was so much bigger that I had eyes to see. The fun, frightening, growing times were about to start.......and I was being watched over!
I will continue to write about what is coming, while adding little parts of the past four years, hear & there......I would love to hear feedback and hello's from any of you!
Wendy (aka) GabbyWray
Over four years ago Darrell was transferred to San Diego, as a Supervisor at the SOCAL TRACON center. He's an air traffic controller. We knew we would be moving somewhere out of Utah, so he could finish up his career. We had our home up for sale and he had moved to San Diego. I had joined him in San Diego several times to search for a home to purchase. We spent countless hours looking at homes that were extremely overpriced. The market was still high and to find a home that was in a good neighborhood and something we could afford was almost impossible. After several trips, we were becoming frazzled. I was planning a wedding while he was learning new air space and a new job. One weekend we spent 3 solid days looking at homes with our Realtor, and found a home in Escondido. It was bank owned, (needed lots of TLC), been sitting for over a year empty. It was VERY small, but we felt could be turned into a shiny penny..... The bank price was $425K, (which we thought was HORRIBLE). We made the offer, and left feeling really good, other than the fact that I would have to start looking for a job the minute we moved. That next Monday, while at dinner feeling like we could celebrate, I got a call from our Realtor. She said that the house had been in a bidding war over the weekend and we had been out bid by $200K!!! REALLY............. We felt like we'd been beat up. I flew back to Utah and we decided we had to do some serious knee bending to ask Heavenly Father, just what we should do. Darrell drove home the next Friday to pick up his Hobie Kat. He was feeling the pressure of work, finances, and not being able to help me maintain our big home and property. We also had been arguing a lot and were both feeling the pressure of the situation. We had just finished up a family dinner & our daughter was having a concert in our back yard that evening, Darrell was laying down in the sitting room by the fireplace, and the look on his face was so sad. I was doing dishes and felt such a huge burden that I started to silently pray. I asked God what he would have us do? What were we not seeing or doing? I thanked him for all my blessings, and asked him if he would please show me what I could do to help the situation. The minute I uttered that prayer, I loudly and clearly heard my name, "Wendy, look at things from his perspective" I was a little shocked, but turned and looked at Darrell. The sadness and weight of our situation was placed full force in my heart. I felt so overwhelmed that I had to lean my head down on the sink. I once again started to pray, asking, if that was how Darrell felt, how could I possibly help the situation, since I wasn't working, and felt I could do nothing to help. The second I asked that question I heard my name again, "Wendy, what are you WILLING to do?" I froze....... I looked out the window for several seconds, and pondered that question. Just what was I willing to do? Several thoughts raced through my mind, and none of them were very good solutions. So I said with everything in my heart, "I'm WILLING to ABSOLUTELY anything! Immediately I heard, "Buy Darci's boat!" I felt like I had been slapped by God. Darci is my husbands little sister, who had spend several years with her husband and four children in the Sea of Cortez, on their 54ft. sailboat. Had the Lord said to me, buy a boat, I would not have understood. But to tell me to buy Darci's boat, it gave me the full picture of living aboard a boat. I was in shock. Nothing on this planet could have been farther from where I thought we were supposed to be. I turned to Darrell and asked him if Darci's boat was for sail. He gave me an odd look and said, "how could you know that?" They had just put it on the market. He jumped to his feet and came up to me, grabbing me by both arms, and with the happiest look on his face, said, "you think you could do that?" Me, feeling like I could throw up, said, "Yes!" Not really feeling that was in my realm of possibilities. The door bell rang and kids were pouring in, so we weren't able to talk more about it. But I watched the night progress, and the way Darrell just seemed to walk around with this new light air about him. I on the other hand, went into the bedroom, had a good cry and threw up. I WAS GOING TO LIVE ON A BOAT!!!
The entire weekend we talked about the idea, and both felt it would work. We decided that Darci's boat was to big and older than we wanted. Being it had no electric winches and since we would be newbies, we wanted a newer boat. Monday morning he left Utah, driving his Hobie back to California. We had decided that I would look on the Internet and he would get a boat broker. He gave me guide lines on the type and size and price of boat he wanted. He called me many times on the drive back to California. Each time he would say, "you really think you could do this?" Each time with such excitement in his voice. And each time I would answer, "Yes!" When I told the Lord I would do ABSOLUTELY anything, I didn't say, anything but that! That night I got a call from my Realtor in Utah, the first words out of his mouth were, "are you sitting down?" I seriously felt like I would faint. My house had sold over the weekend. We were offered exactly what we had asked. The family were offering cash and wanted us out of the home in a week. A WEEK!!! I had a wedding coming up the next weekend. How could that possibly be done? So we were able to push it back one week, excepting the offer. That entire week I just walked around in a daze and would burst into tears, looking at all the beautiful things I owned. The beautiful home I was letting go. To go live on a BOAT! I would lay awake at night and literally shake.......
During the week, I had found a boat on line that I fell in love with. It was in our price range and in Long Beach. I hadn't had a chance to talk to Darrell because of his work schedule and his flight home for the wedding. So with papers in hand I picked him up at the airport. I felt that since I was the one that had heard the answer, I should get the chance to pick out the boat. He got off the plane and the first words out of his mouth were, "I put money down on a boat." I was sooooooooo hurt. I didn't even get to show him my photos of the boat I wanted. I started to cry, and told him I thought it wasn't fair that he'd done this. That he didn't even give me a chance to show him the boat I wanted. I shoved the papers into his hand. A big smile slowly came across his face. He had actually put money down on MY boat!!! We had both picked out the exact same boat. Everything fell into place like a set of domino's. The wedding was beautiful, the move was so fast your head would spin, and I was on my sailboat living in Mexico in a matter of just a couple of weeks.
During this time, I kept praying that the Lord would give me strength and help me do this. It was so much bigger that I was. So after saying goodbye to family and friends and the fear of moving aboard a boat, (I'd never stood on a sailboat), in Mexico, (I spoke no Spanish) we drove to Mexico. Our youngest son Jake moved aboard with me and Darrell dropped us both off at the boat, gave us some brief instructions, and had to drive back to the US. That night I hit my knees and asked Heavenly Father to help me. That I just didn't think I could do this. The next afternoon, I came walking down the dock from the pool at the Marina and was met by one of my boat neighbors. She wanted to introduce me to my neighbors who had just pulled in. It was a group of men who came down from Dana Point, California, to fish around the clock for a weekend. The last day they would come in and supply the fish while boaters on the dock supplied all the food for a wonderful dock party. The man got off the boat and came toward me. He shook my hand and told me his name. I had this shock go through me, (like I felt I knew him) and asked him where he was from. He told me a little town in Idaho. I felt like someone had wrapped me in a huge warm blanket. I laughed and told him I was from that same town. I had graduated with his brother. Not only were we from the same small Idaho town, but my dearest friend, is his first cousin and we had just been in that town saying goodbye to my Dad and Stepmother. We stopped at his parents home and his mother had given me a bunch of patterns to crochet and knit. I laughed and asked him when the last time was he'd been home. He said he hadn't been home in a year. I told him his parents looked great. He started to laugh and went into his boat and brought out the little town news paper with my Dad's face on it, because my dad had just become the County Commissioner........... That night after the party, I went into my room, got on my knees and thanked my Heavenly Father for watching over me. For showing me he was there.......for showing me, that what was to come was so much bigger that I had eyes to see. The fun, frightening, growing times were about to start.......and I was being watched over!
I will continue to write about what is coming, while adding little parts of the past four years, hear & there......I would love to hear feedback and hello's from any of you!
Wendy (aka) GabbyWray
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